Here’s what the coming out letter of a late bloomer looks like

Norm Julian
8 min readMar 20, 2021

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The usual — I’m just one guy. I cannot speak for anyone else, except in overlaps and averages. But as one guy who came out at 28, I think it’s important to emphasize that being transgender happens in all kinds of ways.

So, here is what I wrote to my parents many months before starting my medical transition — and what I finally sent to them, one month into the testosterone therapy I hadn’t told them about yet — when I finally felt…

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Norm Julian

Programmer by trade, Texpat, lover of multicolored things and sunflower seed butter